Knowing Your Worth

I have a few good girlfriends, not a lot but a few and I'm grateful. The one thing I notice about women is our strength, our courage, our beauty, and our perseverance. One thing most women do not know about themselves is their worth. I have sit back many times, and listened as women have plotted, contrived, convinced, and attempted to swindle men into marrying them. Only to be afraid that he may run off, after five good years of investment and marry the next good looking mother figure that gives him the eye. But I ask all you divas out there to turn on your diva switch, and ask yourself what am I worth? Who is the real prize? Look in the mirror, baby. You will see the prize starring back at you. That beautiful goddess in the mirror is the real investment, and when we begin to believe it he will too. I believe the best way to keep a man, is to make sure that he knows that you are the best thing he ever had, and is ever gonna get. I think I did such a good job convincing my ex-husband of how good a woman I was that he just can't leave me alone. A strong man knows a good woman when he sees her. A weak man can't handle the truth. If your constantly begging, for treasures, then your definitely doing something wrong. You have reluctantly left you man thinking he is the golden ticket when in fact, you are. A true Prima donna knows how to turn an argument in to a make out session, and a credit card bill into a beautiful piece of origami. God blessed us with beautiful minds capable of love, and caring, and male manipulation. Use God's gifts to the best of your ability. Look in that mirror and ask yourself "What am I worth?" Then answer yourself back "a new car, a new wardrobe, a new kitchen table, and maybe even a new man." But remember your the treasure. Like the good book says, ".....a man who findeth a woman finds a good thing." We are the good thing!